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Thanks for visiting The Anxious Lesbian! Professionally, I’m an HR professional in Atlanta, GA who enjoys writing, watching ghost-hunting videos, and baking. Privately, I’m the producer of many voices, bendy body movements, and fake scenarios in my head that result in real anxiety.

Marching band makes me sad and happy.

When I was in middle and high school, I wasn’t suicidal, but I didn’t want to be there. I was honest with my mom about those feelings when they became a bit too much; I said, “Mama, I promise you that I don’t want to die, I just don’t want to be here.” First, concert […]

An interesting journey I’m on…

Closing chapters from over ten years ago… For context, these posts might help to fill it some background for what you’re about to read: Mommy Issues & A Metaphorical Death. Long story short, I dated my first girlfriend from age 15-17 after feelings developed the year before at age 14 (puts us in 9th grade […]


Rock climbing, house sitting, and pool parties.

Rock climbing. I’ve been going rock climbing at a local gym, as well as using their regular gym equipment, too. I was inspired by this video, and I have friends who have been doing it, so it was just kind of the final push. Last week, we also got belay certified for that particular location, […]

I am feeling excitement.

We are halfway through 2022 and I am feeling extreme excitement. There have been a lot of mental changes in my brain and also some life changes that my fiancé and I have decided on. WordPress also has this cool new background color thing going on, so I thought I’d try it out! Let me […]

6/24/2022

It is currently June 24, 2022 and our patio is almost finished. I also just took the dog out to the front yard to pee and got catcalled on my own front door step. I have been “catcalled” one other time while on my own property; we had just moved into the new house last […]